Communicating with Our Children

By Admin Mediaummat | 27 August 2022 12:57:54 | 161 | 0
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Then why the more here, the more crime happens? Even the crime was committed by parents on their own children. And, there are also crimes committed by a child. What is the underlying error. How to prevent this from happening again? What should we do with our children to make them emotionally resilient?

 

It turns out that the key lies in the cliché: communication. Children are more often "heard" not "listened to" every day. What's the difference? listen is to hear with eyes and heart. Not casually, while cooking, while fueling, and watching tv. Because they are not 'listened', emotions are not channeled, buried, then erupted like a mountain without a barrier

appears in unimaginable forms of behavior.

 

The last two cases resulted in murder.

 

We are not trained to express emotions. Boro-boro is taught to empathize.

Generally, children should not cry, especially if he is a boy, even though God also gives tears to men when they are sad.

 

The child is angry, and beating, and the mother is getting angry. It's not asked why hitting and if you can't hit, what can you do? cursing?.

 

After being allowed to speak, be heard, and understood, what next?

 

Teach children to seek and find solutions. Because problems arise in life, every day. 

 

Sometimes it's easy, but sometimes the problems that come with it are very difficult.

 

But how can children find solutions, if all are helped by their father, mother, grandmother, and aunt? Eating is fed, and the pup is still brushed. Even when the exam is generally the mother who panics herself

 

So what happens when life's trials come your way? Sometimes mom and dad aren't there to support them, their brains aren't trained to solve problems. There are only emotions piled up earlier, ready to attack and as usual, lock with religion. Religion cannot be just a mere theory, it needs application and appreciation in the soul so that religion participates in every decision it makes.

 

Children often forget that life is only temporary. His current behavior has an impact on the afterlife forever. Also not only ends in prison bars but there is a burning fire at the end of the road

 

Being a parent is not easy. If it feels easy, you are doing it wrong. What our children do, we are responsible for until we are underground. We give wholeheartedly and with full attention alone does not guarantee anything. Especially if the care is by half.

Hopefully, we can become complete parents and raise healthy, pious, and happy children. Who is able to pass all the trials of the world and of course help us enter heaven? (*)

 

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