Becoming Close with Our Teenage Kids: Maintain Your Communication

By Dr. Vivi Parenting | 29 July 2022 15:00:29 | 346 | 0
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Back to the problem of possible contact when swinging. Know that children do not belong to us. They deposit. So from, for example, the age of 7 years, let the child say what he means. Be careful, with technology, children can become "enemies". So, are our expectations for children realistic? Then, look at his friends. Then, what about religious values? Who implanted? Many are vacant due to parenting issues. But, it's never too late. Start by trying to hear more. If the child tells a story, tamping first, practice reading body language.

Well, in most cases, teenagers are rarely heard. Maybe in a week only 19 minutes. So, children also prefer to speak with each other which cannot be prohibited. So, turn into friends when the child grows up. The difficulty is extraordinary.

 

So, when it comes to comforting a heartbroken 16-year-old girl, first, accept her feelings. Read body language and listen actively, but don't give advice right away. So? Wait another month if necessary. For a stubborn but whiny child, the advice is to make a list of possible causes. Read body language, listen to her feelings, and begin by apologizing for one of her bad traits.

 

So, is it good for children who only know home and school? If a child is 'hurt' on the outside, then become an Emotional Safety Network (JPE) and fix the wound. Children have to face the fact that life is not as smooth as at home. He must be faced with choices and learn to bear the risks.

 

Then, how do the limits give freedom to girls? Freedom must have a basis. Do they have a basis, who can touch and who can be touched? Regarding travel time, this is also debatable. According to data from the Kita and Buah Hati foundation, many teenagers are allowed to only leave for 2 hours, but actually become prostitutes! So take good care of the children, so that later we don't experience an "empty harvest". Think about what kind of harvest you want.

 

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